Money Matters for the Life You're Living - Part 2
04/01/2026
Last time we focused upon your financial foundation. The next step is putting that clarity into motion. That’s where budgeting comes in. For many, budgeting feels restrictive or unrealistic. Life doesn’t follow a perfect script as expenses change, priorities shift and the unexpected often shows up. A good budget should give you structure with flexibility, so your money works for your life – not the other way around.
Build a Flexible Framework (not a perfect budget)
Most budgets fail because they are too rigid for real life. Your income may be steady, but expenses rarely are. Create a simple three-layer approach for your expenses. For each of these, use a range or percentage as this gives you flexibility when those expenses fluctuate.
- Essentials – housing, utilities, insurance, loan payments
- Day-to-day living – groceries, dining, gas, activities
- Future-Focused – savings, debt reduction, special items like vacation trip
Tools that can help you manage this can range from a simple spreadsheet or journal to budgeting apps. The best tool is one that fits your routine as consistency matters more than complexity.
Try This: Start by reviewing the last 2-3 months of spending and group expenses into the three categories above and estimate a range for each. When you subtract these expenses from your income, do you have flexibility in your budget, or do you need to adjust some ranges?
Plan for Expenses You Know are Coming
Some of the most frustrating financial moments aren’t surprises. They are expenses we knew were coming but didn’t plan for. Examples of these expenses include holiday travel, back-to-school costs, property taxes or insurance payments, and home or vehicle maintenance. When you must pay these, it can take a lot out of your bank account!
Try This: Make a short list of 3-5 larger expenses you expect by the end of the year. Divide the total by number of remaining months in 2026 and set up a transfer for this small amount to go into a savings account. This way you won’t be caught off guard.
Align Your Spending with What Matters Most
Budget is not about controlling spending. It is about directing it. When your spending reflects your priorities, it becomes easier to make decisions. You are not cutting back for the sake of cutting back – you’re making room for what matters. Depending upon where you are at in life, think about how your budget connects to the bigger picture:
- Paying for college
- Supporting your family
- Preparing for retirement
Try This: Look at the last month of spending and ask: “Did my money go toward what matters most to me?” If not, identify one small adjustment you can make next month to be better aligned to your spending.
Recap and What is Next
As you budget, keep in mind that it is a balancing act between now and the future. Money spent right away helps you enjoy life now. The money you save is about your future enjoyment whether that is a month, a year, or in 20 years! Next month we will look at investment options that reflect what’s important to you.
